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5. Use a Personal One-on-one Approach.
It's sort of a surprise when we read The Urantia Book and discover that Jesus rarely taught the multitudes. Once he had trained his apostles, they did the preaching-even so, only a few of them were very good at preaching. The work of the master was accomplished principally through personal, one-on-one work, e.g., the preparing of the teachers in Rome (1455:4-1456:6). And he chose only 12 apostles to begin his work (I often wonder if this fact maybe tells us something about optimal class size).
I've found the one-on-one approach very effective in my own career as a teacher of writing. Like most other subjects, writing is traditionally taught by standing up in front of the classroom and expounding on the good writing of certain authors-certain techniques to use, things to avoid. Then students are expected to write a paper; the paper is graded and returned-and it's all very impersonal.
But I discovered that, not being a long-winded person, I couldn't fill my class hours with talking about writing. I believe that one learns writing by writing (that learning-by-doing thing). But just having them write for hours is not very productive either. So I added another dimension to this process: the students and I meet one-on-one over their papers and talk about it. This technique completely changes the process. It becomes obvious to them how a reader-a real live person-reacts to their writing. Sometimes if I don't understand what they are trying to say, we can just talk about it. And then I can say, "write down what you just said." Students understand the ins and outs of grammar a lot better if it is applied to the mistakes that they make-not some artificial sample errors. They remember the rule of whether to use "I" or "me" much better when shown on their own paper.
This personal technique works in teaching math, in teaching electricity, in teaching just about anything. People understand concepts better when they are applied to a problem they are working on.
I know a lot of teachers say, "I just don't have the time to do this with all my students. I have too many students; I have too much material to cover." In response my question is, first to the system that assigns so many students to a teacher, what good is it to strive for efficiency if students don't really master material? And to those teachers who think they have so much material to cover: what good is it to cover more material if students don't master the basics?
And again, as far as religious teaching may apply: Why try to tell people all about the Lucifer rebellion or the mansion worlds, when what they personally need is simply encouragement that God loves them as individual children?
Once again, however, personal one-on-one teaching can be overdone. Many concepts can be taught to a group, with a personal follow-up with each student. A teacher has to use time efficiently and simply can't repeatedly teach the same concepts individually to each student. The personal one-on-one approach is designed to help students apply the material to their own experience.
6. Reveal Your Human Side
One of the great gifts we have in The Urantia Book is the portrait that emerges of Jesus as a real human being. We see his life struggles and get a glimpse of the conflicts that he faced, which all of us also face. And thus he doesn't seem like an unapproachable God who led a perfect life simply because he had the advantage of being God. He seems like a real human being, a person who struggled as we do.
This revealing of the human side is an important component of the teaching relationship. Sometimes teachers come across as haughty, arrogant, always right. We begin to wonder if they are human at all, and we question whether we ourselves can attain their level.
I'm currently studying for a doctoral degree. I had thought about pursuing my Ph.D. for a long time because I enjoy going to school and I'm good at reading and writing. The study part did not scare me. What did scare me was that at the doctoral level I would have to work closely with my advisor-and I was afraid of this relationship. I had a bad attitude about people in the academic profession. My experience had been that they were arrogant, haughty, always right. I wasn't sure that I wanted to enter a close working relationship with them.
When I was accepted at graduate school, I was excited about the person who was going to be my advisor. She is well known in her field, her doctorate is from an ivy league college, and she is an associate dean in the college. I knew that I could learn a lot from her. But I was really concerned about the relationship. Next to her, I felt like a rough Galilean woman: 18 years of teaching at a tiny technical college is not exactly prestigious. I live on a farm, where I start my day in coveralls and knee-high rubber boots. I've milked goats and sheared sheep. I was really concerned that we would not find much in common.
But the relationship has gone well. I'm not going to pretend that we're great buddies or anything, but my advisor has let me see her human side. She is a good teacher, and she has revealed to me enough of her personal conflicts that I can see that she too is a person who struggles. And that encourages me. If she can struggle and continue, then maybe I can too.
This is a teaching technique we often feel is somehow inappropriate because after all, as teachers we think we have to be infallible. But just the opposite is true. People, our children, our students, our employees, will learn more from us if they can see us as people who struggle, who aren't always right or perfect.
In The Urantia Book Jesus gives another gift to us that reveals his humanity. This gift is one that I feel has been distorted and misused by almost all of Christianity-and even misused by us as readers of The Urantia Book. It's an important gift, and so I'm going to digress for a moment.
I'm talking about the Remembrance Supper. I grew up Catholic; and therefore I have experienced a lot of solemn communion services. I have also received communion in other churches and have shared in Remembrance Suppers with fellow readers. Most of these occasions have been very ceremonious, with solemn readings and motions. There is a place for such formality and solemnity-and I don't mean to denigrate these practices.
But I do think that in establishing the Remembrance Supper Jesus meant it for more everyday use. We are told that he specifically tried not to establish a formula for a sacrament. His intention for everyday use is evident in the words that he used. In true English-teacher style, I suggest that we examine the text and look at what the words mean.
When Jesus had thus established the supper of the remembrance, he said to the apostles: "And as often as you do this, do it in remembrance of me." [1943:2]
The first question an English teacher would ask is, What does the word this refer to in the sentence? It is a pronoun without an antecedent.
This could mean, "This solemn offering of unleavened bread and wine among a community of believers." This definition is, of course, the narrow definition that most Christian churches recognize. But this could also mean, "Sharing food with friends," or even more broadly, "Eating." I like these broader definitions. Let's use them in our explication.
Analyzing further, we ask ourselves, how often do we eat or share food with friends? The answer, of course, is very frequently. Our lives are punctuated by eating, from the first day to the last. From the first day when a mother holds a newborn baby to her breast, through all the days of childhood and family life, old age and death, we eat almost every day of our lives. And we celebrate major events by sharing food with people: birthdays, graduations, weddings, even funerals.
So when Jesus tells us that as often as we do this, do it in remembrance of him, maybe he is telling us to do it everyday, several times a day. He goes on to give us more explicit instructions about how to remember him:
. . . And when you do remember me, first look back upon my life in the flesh, recall that I was once with you, and then, by faith, discern that you shall all some time sup with me in the Father's eternal kingdom. [1943:2]
What does Jesus want us to remember about him? He wants us to remember that he is human just like us. He wants us to think about how we are feeling at that moment, and to look through his life for a time that he shared the same feelings. Jesus had a life that had many happy moments with his family and friends. But he also had other feelings. There were days of awkwardness in the family because he had been lost in the temple or because his brother Jude had done some unacceptable thing. There were days when he was tired from working so hard. There was that awful day when the family received word that Joseph had been injured and Jesus had to remain behind with the little children and give them something to eat while he waited with such uncertainty and terror. There were the days he ate with his family, but he was wondering how he could tell Rebecca that he wasn't going to marry her. And there was the night he sat down with the people he loved best and knew that he was going to leave them. He worried about them and he was also heartbroken that one of these whom he loved best had already betrayed him.
When you sit down to eat, everyday, stop and ponder that Jesus, the Creator Son of our universe, sat down at a table just as you are now, and felt the same kinds of feelings that you are feeling right now.
And if you do this, you will begin to experience Jesus as a real human being who struggled just as you struggle. He had the courage to go on, and so can you.
Conclusion
So there we have it: six techniques given to us and demonstrated by the master teacher, Jesus. Of course any of these techniques can be overdone. The whole concept of teaching as a relationship can be overemphasized. The beauty of Jesus' teaching is that he had a balanced approach.
All of these points stand on the same foundation principle: at the heart of teaching is something that happens between student and teaching. It is a relationship between persons; it is a meeting of minds.
So maybe you're beginning to see that you should reconsider what you've been teaching and how you've been teaching. Maybe you're beginning to see that you do have both opportunities and responsibilities to teach-on both the practical and the spiritual planes. But maybe you don't know where to begin; perhaps you think six techniques are too many things to remember. I leave you with one last easy point to remember.
A present day master teacher, an American, Parker Palmer wrote a book called The Courage to Teach. I was surprised when I read this book because many of his concepts about the teaching relationship seem related to those in The Urantia Book. Although he is a university professor, he has taught at many levels, and he directs his book to all teachers from kindergarten to university.
One of the principal points of his book is: you teach who you are. He emphasizes that the lessons people learn from you-intentionally or unintentionally-are about the person you are.
Most of us recognize how true this is. The person that the teacher is impresses us for the positive or the negative. Some of us have developed a lifelong aversion to a subject because of a certain teacher. We decided years ago that we did not want to have anything to do with, for example physics, because one of our physics teachers was a person we didn't want to be anything like.
But teachers can and do have a positive impact. Many of us have chosen a career because we wanted to be like a particular teacher. That teacher seemed like such a rich human being who was living the kind of life we wanted to live, and therefore we chose the same profession. For example, many of my English teachers were interesting people with such insights into human behavior that I wanted to be like them. In addition, the personality of Parker Palmer that comes through in his book has further energized me to extend my teaching career. I have learned from who my teachers are.
And of course, Jesus, the master teacher, taught who he is. Two thousand years ago he told Ganid basically the same thing about teaching, but in a more positive approach. He said:
"If we know God, our real business on earth is so to live as to permit the Father to reveal himself in our lives, and thus will all God-seeking persons see the Father and ask for our help in finding out more about the God who in this manner finds expression in our lives." [1466:2]
In other words: Be what you teach.
It's something we sometimes forget, isn't it? And yet it is so obvious. If we want our kids to grow up to be responsible adults, we have to be responsible adults. If we want our employees to be courteous and efficient with customers-we have to be that way too. I've found that if I want my students to be writers, I have to be a writer too, not just a teacher of writing.
If we want to go out in the world and teach others about the fatherhood of God and the brotherhood of man-guess what? We have to be family.
If you don't know where to begin your teaching career, start here, a simple step to remember: Be what you teach.
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