|
One of the tasks
that many people in the Urantia community are faced with at one time
or another is teaching an individual or a group about The Urantia
Book. Sometimes we may feel inadequate to the task, but we have some
excellent guidance available. Though Jesus lived in a culture that
was very different from ours, and though we are not dual nature
beings like Jesus, nevertheless we can learn from his teaching
methods. Our culture may differ from his, but human nature is the
same today as it was 2000 years ago. The teaching methods of Jesus
should be just as effective today as they were when he walked the
earth. We students of The Urantia Book have the privilege of
possessing a detailed account of Jesus' life and teachings. I
believe that we who aspire to be teachers can profit greatly from
studying and attempting to use Jesus' teaching methods.
Jesus and the
Individual.
During his time
as Ganid's tutor, Jesus had the best opportunity of his life to
teach and minister to individuals. Here are some of the incidents
recorded in The Urantia Book and some thoughts about them:
Jesus talked to
Godiah, a Philistine interpreter. When Godiah asked Jesus about the
story of Jonah and the whale, he asked whether or not the whale
actually swallowed Jonah. (1429) Because Jesus sensed how important
this story was to Godiah, he did not directly address his question.
He taught some truths by using metaphors derived from things
mentioned in the story. By answering Godiah in this way, Jesus did
not take anything away from him; rather he gave something to him. If
we wish to teach someone, we need to learn about that person's
deeply held beliefs and respect these.
Jesus turned
Anaxand's anger toward his supervisor into concern for the
supervisor's soul. (1431) Jesus used the metaphor of a drowning man
and suggested that Anaxand would not let a man drown, and in a
similar fashion, his supervisor was "floundering in
darkness" and needed to be rescued. Jesus turned attention away
from Anaxand's plight and focused it on the plight of his
supervisor. He turned Anaxand's focus from within to without. He
also suggested a positive plan of action: that he and Anaxand go and
talk to the supervisor. Can we likewise turn someone's anger into
positive action by using Jesus' method?
Fortune was a
downcast and isolated young man. (1437) Jesus attempted to make a
direct approach to the mind and soul of Fortune without success. He
then resorted to the subterfuge of asking the young man for
directions to Phenix. After Jesus had drawn the young man out of his
shell, he was able to make an appeal to his soul through his mind.
Jesus was persistent and creative in reaching Fortune; he wasn't put
off by the failure of his first attempt. By showing interest in
people's lives, we may be able to draw them out so we can speak to
their souls. And we need to be creative and persistent in our
approach to the souls of our fellow mortals.
Jesus gave
counsel to a wealthy Roman regarding how he should administer his
wealth. (1462) Jesus did this only because the rich man specifically
asked for this advice. We would be well advised to follow this
example. Do we lecture our children or do we practice the art of
listening to them? Do we give friends unwanted advice?
Ganid was
surprised that Jesus did not try to speak about spiritual matters to
a pagan they met. (1466) Jesus explained that the man was not
seeking truth now, but that later he might be ready for it. At
another time, Jesus said that we should not cast our pearls before
swine. In other words, don't waste your time with those who don't
care about what you have to offer, but also recognize that some of
them may sometime in the future be hungry for truth. Sometimes we
need to practice patience and wait for a sign of readiness before we
try to introduce The Urantia Book or ideas from it to people. It may
not be what they need at that particular moment.
When Jesus saw a
man mistreating his wife, he approached him in a way that distracted
him from his anger. (1471) Jesus then made him aware that he was
violating his own highest principles. This is one of the occasions
that Jesus used guilt to make someone aware that his or her actions
were unacceptable, but he did it in a kindly way, according to The
Urantia Book. Some may think that encouraging guilt is never
acceptable, but when we have failed to live up to our moral
standards, guilt is an appropriate feeling. But we should not stay
locked in feelings of guilt; rather, we should take appropriate
action to remedy the problem. In this case, the man regretted what
he had done, and promised to live up to a pledge he had made to a
Cynic priest. Jesus showed us how to intervene in a conflict
situation, and how it can be effective if we do it in a loving
fashion.
When Jesus and
Ganid were accosted by two prostitutes, Ganid tried to send them
away, but Jesus had a different reaction; he treated them with
sympathy and dignity. (1473) He recognized that they had been forced
into their work by circumstances. But he did more than sympathize
with the women; he arranged a way for them to escape from their
situation. He brought them to the wife of a new friend, and this
woman agreed to help them leave their life of degradation and help
them find work. They were not given charity, but rather a chance for
honest work, a chance to regain their self-respect. It was not so
much what Jesus said,
but what he did that was the most effective in this case. Actions
speak louder than platitudes. Ganid learned several valuable lessons
from this experience. Jesus taught Ganid to look beyond the surface
appearances and see the goodness in the two women, and he saw that
it is important sometimes to lend a helping hand as well as
supportive words.
|